I and so many other guys out there have had series of failed relationships in the past. Well I can’t really place my fault in any of it bt u know what, Being comfortable with your other half is wonderful; however, girls tend unconsciously pick up some habits along the way that turn us off. Here are the top ten habits.
They tend to over analyze the smallest thing you do…Why not give him the benefit of the doubt, by taking things at face value? If a guy says, ‘I’m a bit busy right now. Can I ring you later?’ chances are, work’s really quite hectic. One kiss in his texts instead of the usual two doesn’t mean he’s gone off you. This way, you’ll save yourself a heap of stress.
Wearing too much make-up
Good. You are making an effort to look good for him, but caking on too much slap could make you look older and too artificial. False eyelashes, contact lens and hair extensions all have their place, but a girl can look fabulous without resorting to these tricks. Don’t you think it’s much better to enhance your natural beauty instead of hiding it and remind him how gorgeous you really are?
Shop till you drop!
If a man is lucky enough to share his life with a girl, chances are, he has to share it with a massive shoe collection as well. Dragging him around the mall for hours, splurging obscene amounts of cash and then taking up valuable storage space with your spoils can drive him up the wall. Perhaps leave your partner at home next time!
Taking so much time to get ready
Even if the end result is a vision of beauty, it takes a very forgiving man to shrug off a three-hour wait. Men understand women want to look their best, but being ready quickly will show how laid back you are, and give you both more time to have fun.
According to scientific types, a good gossiping session is a way of bonding and triggers the release of endorphins; those hormones that make us feel happy. This is all well and good, but when it is the focus of the gossip is someone the man knows too, it can be very awkward next time he sees them.
Pinching other people’s chips
No one’s going to judge a girl if she orders her own plate of chips, or a dessert for that matter. But if you virtuously stick to a salad and then proceed to demolish the tasty stuff from the plate opposite, it’ll raise a few eyebrows. Go on and order the chocolate pudding if you want it. And don’t worry if you don’t want to share!
Obsessing about weight
Women are bombarded with images of perfect beauty, so it’s no wonder, fretting about your appearance is an hourly past-time. But even though it might not seem like it, men just aren’t as interested in such! If you radiate self-confidence, no one’s going to notice those extra three pounds you put on recently.
Women have a habit of going on in such a way that the more they nag, the lower the chance their man will ever do whatever it is they’re being asked. The solution? Do it yourself! Failing that, ask sweetly and sparingly, and lavish him with gratitude when it eventually gets done.
Talking too much
Really, girls love to chat. In the ladies’ restroom, at the gym, in the workplace, there is something to say most of the time. But while no one likes an awkward silence, it’s worth remembering your man is not your sound board, like your best friend might be. Stick to subjects that will interest you both and ask lots of questions – especially when you’re getting to know each other.
Probing men’ inner thoughts
You’re snuggled up on the sofa, enjoying a rare moment of peace and quiet. And then comes this question – ‘What are you thinking?’ You’re only trying to foster the atmosphere of intimacy and perhaps hoping for some proof that you’re the center of his thoughts. But his mind may have already wandered to yesterday’s football scores and he’ll have to lie to keep you happy. Compliments are lovely, but if you wait until he chooses to dish them out, they’ll be that much sweeter